Plus, how domestic violence is destroying our police force – author Pettina Arndt 
Some months ago, Australia’s most senior judge, Chief Justice Stephen Gageler, warned of a global diminution of trust in institutions, including our courts, which he said were portrayed as “partisan, political institutions.”
Speaking at a West Australian legal event, he advised the judiciary to “stick to their knitting, and only do law, and to do it in a very distinct way according to orthodox legal method.”
There’s another critical part of our judicial system where members would love to stick to their knitting, and that’s our Police Force. Our law enforcement agencies are in trouble, losing increasing numbers of officers and struggling with recruitment, as police officers across the country complain about frustration and burnout.
The force has been hijacked. Police now find themselves working for a partisan political institution devoted to feminist ideology and involved in policing that largely has nothing to do with keeping people safe. Rather, this vital institution promotes an agenda that labels marital acrimony as domestic violence and enlists the force in the ongoing war on men.
Most police want only to return to their knitting. They want to fight crime. But police authorities are catering to the whims of politicians and the media, who are determined to keep police on the front line of their gender wars.
“The system is broken. Police face an impossible situation. Officers are caught between political pressure, risk-averse policy, and media narratives that punish them no matter which way they respond. It is no wonder so many leave the job.”
The speaker knows all about these pressures. He’s a former Detective Senior Constable who spent 15 years with the Victorian police trying to walk this tightrope. Ironically, his initial troubles stemmed from a period where he was under severe stress because the unit where he was working was totally gutted, as staff were moved to newly created domestic violence teams. The strain of doing his job in the understaffed unit had such an impact on his mental health that he burnt out and required a period of leave to recover. All this ultimately led to the disintegration of his marriage.
He then found himself on the receiving end of precisely the type of allegation he’d been policing for so many years. His wife enlisted the help of some former colleagues to lodge false violence allegations, which ended up not only driving him out of his job but also out of the state, as she set up breaches of her protective violence order, which could result in him being sent to prison.
I’ve made a podcast with this former cop – I’ve called him “Adrian”. We also included an ex-police officer from NSW who has an equally horrendous story of fighting false allegations. These two men represent the dozens of police officers who have contacted me over the years who have been wrongly accused, including some still in the force and too nervous to be interviewed.
Compelling stories told by the true victims at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CR0BhvXtszY&t=5s
Here are the ultimate witnesses to a system on its knees. They have first-hand experience of the immense damage being caused to our justice system by incentivising false, unchallenged allegations which provide women – and it is almost always women – with unparalleled power to drive a former partner out of their lives and those of their children.
These former police officers’ discussions with me show how false allegations are tearing apart the social fabric of Australia and undermining the credibility and professionalism of our police services.
All this passes unnoticed in our culture with its feminist-controlled media, blinkered politicians and people in power all determined to pretend it isn’t happening. It is disgraceful that our media and politicians rant about the struggle police are having in controlling violent house invasions and adolescent gangs in Victoria and Queensland, without a word about the dangerous diversion of resources to policing false and trivial domestic violence matters. What a farce.
So, what do these falsely accused officers reveal about our troubled police forces?
One striking moment in our conversation was Adrian speaking with great enthusiasm about an earlier point in his career where he was required to attend extra training in a domestic violence risk assessment system being implemented in the Victorian police force. He was so hopeful that this new system would allow police to do proper evaluations of violence allegations to determine the truth. But instead, he found himself caught up in the current tick-a-box system, which totally ignores an alleged perpetrator’s side of the story.
The ultimate irony was that when some of his colleagues helped his wife embellish allegations she was making against him, they drew on examples taken from their domestic violence training manual to create truly horrendous accusations about his behaviour.
The other ex-cop who was part of our discussion – I called him “Liam” – also had harrowing tales of a wife who made various historic assault accusations against him. When police were called, the investigating officer initially told him that he’d determined the allegations were false and that he would have them withdrawn. But when this officer returned to his police station, he was overruled by senior officers who said that because Liam was a former police officer, he had to be held to a higher standard. He was charged with four counts of domestic violence assault dating back 8 years.
Eventually, the matter was heard in court, and the allegations were dismissed by a very experienced magistrate who was scathing about the charges, saying that they were clearly designed to gain advantage in a family law matter and should never have ended up in court. They were dismissed due to insufficient evidence, with costs made against the police force.
The very next day, Liam’s ex-wife went back to the same police station and made new allegations, which led to another protective order. That too was ultimately dismissed, but only after the violence order had influenced family court proceedings, denying him contact with his children. Liam is currently involved in a malicious prosecution case against the NSW police. (He’s part of an organisation called Kilo4Delta, which has ambitious plans for change, including a malicious prosecution class action.)
Both men are aware of many other cases of officers who have been similarly falsely accused. I’ve been talking to another NSW officer still in the force, who was married to a very violent woman who regularly threatened to destroy his career with rape and violence allegations and to make sure he never saw his son again. Once, he ended up having stitches in the hospital after she threw a wine glass at him.
When they eventually split up, it turned out she had been reporting to domestic violence services that he had been physically and sexually abusive during their marriage. She made a report to police claiming he had threatened her with his work firearm, but he was luckily able to disprove this with video recordings from his phone and home security.
Since he was able to document her years of violence, threats and false allegations, there was such overwhelming evidence against her that she was eventually charged and convicted of a string of offences, and he ended up with custody of his son (after paying crippling legal fees using his inheritance.)
But his case is unusual. As Liam and Adrian explain, most police officers lose their careers after false allegations, with management keen to be seen as tough on rogue members.
Of course, our media loves stories of police officers as wife abusers. Just look at this breathless report from The Guardian, gloating that an investigation had revealed “11 NSW officers had been investigated for domestic violence, in some cases more than once!” Never any suggestion that any of these allegations could have been false.
Yet on the rare occasions police dare speak out about the issue, the truth sometimes emerges. “We receive multiple false claims per year against our officers, which halts their careers and requires significant resources for defence,” said Queensland lawyer Calvin Gnech, speaking at a Senate Inquiry into domestic violence. Gnech had been doing work for the Queensland Police Union for over a decade.
Recently, there has been some welcome resistance emerging in police management, with some prepared to point out that the current swamping of proper police work is unsustainable.
Domestic violence case management is not “core business” of police, declared Queensland’s Acting Commissioner Shane Chelepy at a press conference last July, announcing the findings of a 100 Day review into police operations and structure. He warned that DV is contributing to “significant mission creep” as police are forced to take on roles for which they are untrained. Besides, he added bravely, “Most Queenslanders would expect the police service to be the frontline response to violent crime.” This is a very welcome acknowledgement that policing domestic violence rarely has anything to do with genuine violent crime.
Last year an article “Law Enforcement and Public Health” in the Oxford Research Encyclopedia of Criminology and Criminal Justice compared policing in Australia to Canada and the UK, and noted Australia’s framing of domestic violence as a “wicked problem” which requires comprehensive police-led interventions, leading to heavier police reliance for holistic support and diverting time from acute enforcement to non-priority tasks like counselling. The other countries use more integrated interagency models (e.g., co-responder teams with health professionals), which mitigate police strain.
The evidence of a police force in trouble is overwhelming:
- Across Australia, there are more than 4,500 vacancies for police officers.
- Queensland faces its worst officer exodus in five years, leaving nearly 1400 positions unfilled across the state.
- Police Federation of Australia CEO Scott Weber said the shortage was ‘the worst I’ve ever seen in my 30 years of policing’.
- The Queensland Police Union president, Shane Prior, confirmed that DV workload is “directly correlated” to officers leaving the force.
- A study of 492,393 DV events in NSW Police reports found that emotional or/verbal abuse was the most commonly recorded abuse type (33.46% of events).
- Each DV incident takes frontline officers between 4 and 6 hours to resolve.
- A study of Australian frontline officers showed DV-specific stress as a likely contributor to burnout.
- It is mainly mid-career, experienced males who are leaving the force, to be replaced by young women.
Recently, The Guardian did a major promotion of a two-year investigation into police domestic violence enforcement failures, claiming the force isn’t doing enough to protect women in trouble.
It’s certainly true that police sometimes under-respond to genuine domestic violence, responds Adrian. But he points out such media stories completely ignore the other side of the story – the over-response to allegations that are false, exaggerated or simply normal family dynamics reframed as abuse.
That over-response is inevitable in a policing culture shaped by pressure, politics and ideology. It’s crippling our police force and diverting help from those who need it most.
Campaigns by feminist groups, often bordering on the hysterical, ensure that the captured media and many politicians put unwarranted pressure on our senior police to devote increasing resources to domestic violence. This is having a very unhealthy effect on the independence of our police, who feel pressured to devote scarce resources to an exaggerated problem, rather than prioritising those resources as they see fit.
We need our police forces to prioritise the most serious crimes. Domestic violence allegations, which are often based on trivial behaviour or are fabricated, are NOT our most serious criminal threat.
We must demand an end to this ideological crusade and a return to proper policing.
I commend your article, I know exactly how this unfolds having been accused of false accusations just for the advantage it gave my former wife, incompetent police failed to protect me from false accusations even though I was one of them a long-experienced investigator with no history of anything other than hard work and dedication. The system failed but my dogged experience got me through. lies will always be exposed. but at what cost.
Congratulations to Bettina for her excellent article and the associated expose of the other side of the scourge of society, domestic violence by the CAA.
Blame is often attributed to popular targets without real understanding of the problem and consequence and insights such as this article are essential to finding a solution. The journey has entered a new phase!
Excellent article, spot on with comments. Having retired after 40yrs in operational positions have talked to serving Police who ALL said FV was taking up huge amounts of their shifts. It wasn’t to hard to work out that so much time in one facet of policing would cause lack of enforcement in other. DRUG abuse was easy to identify back in 2008 as needing a lot of time by Police, but only so much can be done in a shift. Huge amounts of drug problems have surfaced in the last 17yrs (of retirement). I’ll guarantee most of the problems in Vic are related to drugs. It’d also be silly to think that a lot of DV is fueled by drug abuse- sort of a round robin situation! Glad I’m out of it !
Thank you for your article. I personally know of at least three recent/current cases where false accusations of sexual assault from members against another member have been filed and proceeded to charges without evidence. Apparently only requires words to get these charges laid. As a general member of the public I am shocked. The effects are devastating to the falsely accused and their families. The false accusers are abusing a system designed to protect real victims. And the police force apparently care more about their public image than what they put their employees through. No support provided to the falsely accused during the so called investigations and thereafter, and no protection from the media when there is no evidence and actually more issues with the complainants credibility. These cases take years to get to the point where they are thrown out in court. After which there is not even an apology.
Thank you Bettina for your tireless work you do to bring the much needed balance of this injustice.
Our Fathers, Sons, Uncles, Nephews and all men unfairly accused by these pathetic women wasting precious resources that could be helping genuine cases need our support and voice.
These women should be held accountable and made an example of.
Enough is Enough. The more this misconduct is spoken about and circulated the better.
Keep up the good work and thank you to all those men who are speaking up, you’re doing it for the thousands of men that can’t right now.
T.
I am not, and never have been, divorced, so this is not a revenge issue. I do, however, have a couple of mates who have been devastated, emotionally and financially, by ex-wives who have lied under oath and used the Family Court to trash the lives of their ex-husbands, basically because they can! Family Court Judges are left with no alternative but to accept the woman’s word for it, because, if she is telling the truth, children are at great risk.
FAMILY COURT SOLUTION
There is a simple solution, which requires no new legislation, to Family Court issues regarding mothers falsely claiming fathers assaulted them, or sexually assaulted children, to mislead the Judge into giving them a better result from the court.
At the moment, mothers can perjure themselves with impunity, resulting in fathers being denied access to their children. Even if the perjury is admitted, currently, NOTHING HAPPENS!
The solution: –
If a mother makes claims of assault or sexual assault of a minor, the Judge orders a thorough police investigation. Should the facts be proven, then the father is prosecuted to the full extent of the law. If found guilty, he is jailed, full custody granted to the mother, and his rights to his children restricted to chaperoned visits or cancelled altogether. On release, he is still required to contribute financially to his children’s upbringing.
If, however, the claims are found to be baseless, the mother is then prosecuted for perjury to the full extent of the law. If found guilty, she is jailed, and full custody is granted to the father. On release, full custody remains with the father, with the mother having limited access to the children, with the mother facing the same financial contribution currently expected of fathers.
Faced with the real prospect of losing her children, it is unlikely mothers would make false allegations, and the result will be a fairer treatment for all at the Family Court.
All that is required is for Family Court Judges to enforce the laws already in place.
This could be achieved merely by announcing a change in protocol, detailing that police will be brought to investigate any allegations with the full force of the law brought to bear, if proven. An additional announcement as to what will happen should the allegations be proven to be baseless should be enough to discourage anyone from lying to the courts and result in balanced, fair treatment for both sides in the court.
Sounds like common sense. Something our Courts know nothing about!
Just remember, without feminist ideologies, you wouldn’t have been given the opportunity to write this article. Let alone be paid for it! In addition, I would be thrilled to know when a “war on men” started. Has that been printed somewhere? By a reputable news agency? Because last time I checked, the only wars occurring were happening between countries. These wars result in genocide that isn’t based on any form or gender identity, and definitely no war against men. Because again, last time I checked, all feminism wanted was for the same rights as men and to not be hurt or killed by them. Whilst I agree with your statement that the police are not the best first response for cases of domestic and family violence, I cannot agree with your ridiculous statement that it is feminist ideology that is infiltrating the front line. It is basic human rights that is changing the landscape of the front line. If you want to genuinely educate yourself in order to make an informed decision that isn’t based on your own emotionally motivated political beliefs, let me know and I will be happy to provide you with some readings that may help you to see the bigger picture. To see a woman’s name on this article, to see that a woman has written this article, is so deeply disappointing. And I feel so so sorry for you.